Psychodynamic therapy

Understanding the past to change the present

Psychodynamic therapy helps you uncover how your early experiences and unconscious patterns shape your emotions, thoughts and relationships today.

It’s about discovering the ‘why’ behind your reactions - the hidden influences that drive repeating struggles or emotional pain.

By bringing these patterns into awareness, you can begin to make conscious choices that lead to lasting change and emotional balance.

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How psychodynamic therapy works

In psychodynamic counselling, you’ll work with your therapist to explore your inner world - your emotions, memories and relationships - with curiosity and compassion. Through conversation and reflection, you’ll uncover how past experiences still shape your present, often in ways you may not realise.

How psychodynamic counselling sessions may help you

Psychodynamic therapy is a gentle process of helping you move from feeling stuck in old patterns to creating new, healthier ways of being. You may:

  • Notice recurring themes or emotional triggers in your daily life
  • Explore how your past influences your choices and relationships
  • Understand your attachment style and how it affects connection
  • Develop awareness that helps you respond, not just react

By understanding the roots of your emotions, you gain freedom to live with authenticity, connection and self-acceptance.

Expected outcomes from psychodynamic therapy

Psychodynamic therapy focuses on long-term understanding rather than short-term fixes. It gives you the tools to see how your emotional world developed, and how to change it for the better. You may:

  • Understand yourself and others with greater empathy
  • Feel calmer and more in control of your reactions
  • Break long-standing patterns in your relationships
  • Gain a clearer sense of confidence and direction
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“I feel so much calmer now”

When I started therapy, I didn’t realise how much my anxiety came from years of pretending to be strong. I thought asking for help meant weakness. Through psychodynamic counselling, I learned to understand where those beliefs came from and how they shaped my relationships.

Now, I feel much calmer and able to connect with others without fear or pressure to be perfect.

- Pat, Cambridgeshire

Creating lasting change from the inside out

Do you want to explore the story beneath your emotions, make sense of how past experiences still influence you today and break the old cycles to create space for genuine emotional growth?

 

NCPS Shirley Marais

OTC Shirley Marais

Shirley Marais EMDR

BACP - Shirley Marais Counselling

Counselling for Individuals, Relationships in Bedford,

St Ives, Bury St Edmunds, or online anywhere in the UK.

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